To be in a friendship is to give effort and to suffer

All this time, i always feel weird to refer to someone as my bestfriend. Aku punya standarku sendiri soal banyak hal, termasuk yang gimana yang bisa kusebut sahabat, semacam apa yang temen, atau yang gimana yang aku sebut kenalan. Aku cuma ngerasa kalo consent itu penting, jadi to label someone as my bestfriend, aku mau orang itu consider me as theirs too. What a weird thought, tapi ya demikian. So do i havefriends? I do, banyak malah. Do i consider them as the close one? For some of them, yes. That is just how it is.

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